The theme of this movie includes racism (without cliches though), generational gap, and healing after tragedy. It is a heavy and sad film, with a very thoughtful and intelligent script, which was nominated for an Oscar. The performances of both leads, especially Halle Berry's, are stunning. She won an Oscar for that, the first and only one so far for African-American actresses. But I think the movie would be better without the sex scenes, as that transient physical feeling cannot heal spiritual wounds anyway.

Take away the wrapping, remove the box and see what's really inside. A powerful drama with a strong message. Superbly acted, well scripted and directed with excellent cinematography. To delve into the plot would ruin it. Just watch it.

Before seeing this movie ,I saw all these great reviews and was really looking forward to seeing it. My reaction after seeing this movie? I was really let down,this film came across more like a raunchy version of a TV movie of the week than a serious motion picture. The only saving grace are the actors!